Monday, February 24, 2025

Weekly Reports

I'm thinking of doing something to keep track of my progress in various areas of life, to keep myself accountable for staying productive instead of *ahem* messing about with my phone. Kind of a life-stealer, that thing. 

I love my bullet journal but it's running out of room, so I may do something here. 

LATER

Things I did over the last few days that were not phone- or doom-scrolling-related:

1) Yesterday, Hubby and I were driving around doing errands, and ended up driving by, and then touring, a house for sale in our neighborhood. It has 500 more square feet than ours, and we liked it pretty well (I liked it more than Hubby), but we found that the extra square footage is all used up in the bedrooms, and there's a living room but no family room - not a good fit for us.

Still, we're now planning to look for something new around here. We contacted our real estate agent, and I looked at storage units that we can start moving unnecessary stuff into. I have really begun to love our property, but I can't see us staying there with M and the granddaughters living with us. We'd have to remodel, or move. 

2) I attended a meeting with a political group that has existed for a long time, but with our current political situation, has never seemed more relevant. We've entered what I call the Flight 93 portion of the program, where (on 9/11/2001) the WTC towers and the Pentagon have been struck, and now people are on the phone with their loved ones on Flight 93 to warn them of what's coming. 

After the first few shocking weeks of T's second administration, people are waking up, taking action, and fighting back. I'm honored to be one of them. 

We met to write postcards to voters in another state, to encourage them to vote for the more progressive candidate running for office in their area. It felt GOOD to gather with these local folks - I plan to join them again in the future.

3) Hubby and I have been doing more "dating". We went to dinner at a brew pub Friday night, and to breakfast at one of our favorite local spots yesterday, and we're planning a quick beach getaway for tomorrow night and Wednesday. We'll be celebrating our 33rd wedding anniversary on Friday, 2/28. 

4) I spent some quality time reorganizing my sewing area in the basement (part of the reason for #1, above - it's like a slide puzzle down there). There's so much clutter, furniture, books, bookcases... yikes. But I made some good progress. Now I just need a new TV for playing DVDs and videotapes - RIP our 30-year-old TV - and I'll be in business. 

5) Genealogy up the wazoo. I've been working on a document about where my ancestors were for each U.S. census, and last night, as always happens while working on that project, I stumbled across numerous unrelated nuggets of information. Yesterday's included three stints in jail (two of them were the husbands of one of Grandma D's first cousins; one was my aunt Elizabeth, sister of Great Grandpa D - I think hers was Prohibition-related, which is just a dumb reason to incarcerate someone - but I did find out she was exactly five feet tall). 

It got to be a little bit much - why do people do things? my poor cousin - and I finally had to put it away when I found that another cousin passed away from a heart attack in his 30s, and his wife unfortunately followed him two months later with self-inflicted asphyxiation in her car/garage. Just too much at that point. 

6) Breakfast in Oregon City with my sweet friend, Beth - there's never enough time with her.

7) Created a monthly rotating dinner menu - no big deal but it'll help us decide what to shop for.

8) Dishes and laundry, of course. 

Friday, January 24, 2025

Vegas Day 1

Flight from PDX to LAS (Alaska Air) was impeccable - we even arrived twenty minutes early. We took a cab from LAS to our hotel, dropped off our bags, and ate lunch at one of the hotel restaurants. The food was so tasty.

Thursday, January 23, 2025

The Coworkers Surprised Me

 I arrived at work to find Clay the Custodian mopping. "Happy Birthday," he grinned. "Wanna know how I know it's your birthday?"

He pointed to the plastic birthday banner I brought from home for Dan's birthday earlier this month, stretched across our office "door" between a file cabinet and the cashiers' binder. 

Very cute. Dan and Heidi are celebrating early since I won't be here Saturday, and with our upcoming trip, I won't be working again till February. 

They're all so darling. This is my most favorite job EVERRRRRR. 

If I ever figure out how to upload pictures again, I'll throw some in. 

Tuesday, December 10, 2024

Don't Be a Crappy Boss

I spent this entire autumn dealing with a crappy decision a certain manager made, which ultimately caused all of the store's non-permanent employees to have to reapply, re-interview, and be re-hired for their jobs. "Stress" doesn't begin to cover what I've been feeling. My job interview happened last week and I spent the rest of the day in bed, feeling like garbage. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. 

And apparently, it was all avoidable, as she was warned in plenty of time that this was coming if she didn't act soon, but the manager in question sat on her hands instead. As a result, not only did we endure this asinine situation, but all the people who APPLIED AND WERE INTERVIEWED FOR OUR JOBS endured a huge waste of their time and energy. And, since (as our supervisors planned) we were all hired back, these folks all got their hopes up for nothing. Just crappy as heck. 

I thought the business owner of Briar was terrible (she was), but I guess if I'm comparing the two situations, I lived that stress every day that I worked there - I had a designated "go be alone and cry" space - and here, it's only been that bad for the last couple of months, and now the end is in sight. 

Life is pretty damn good otherwise. We're getting ready for Christmas and enjoying the activities of the season, along with trying to clear out our clutter (a constant) and do all the usual daily stuff. 

Tuesday, November 26, 2024

Mormony, More Problems*

 *Dan is to blame for this one. I think it's hilarious so I'm writing it down here. 

Wednesday, November 6, 2024

The Shithead Won

Time to move to another country. It's on all of our minds this morning - choices are being discussed via the family group text thread. I used to laugh at people who threatened to leave the States after an election didn't go their way, but this is different. This election outcome constitutes a very credible threat to my loved ones. 

It's bad enough that he's such a piece of garbage, but the people who voted for him are predominantly on my shit list. I don't know him personally, but I know some of his voters, and it makes me sick that they would so casually vote for a fascist who WANTS TO HURT MY KIDS and other LGBTQ+ folks. These people either don't know us, or do know us and don't care and voted for him anyway. I don't want to know these people anymore. 

So, I need to start selling stuff, I guess, or at the very least, stop buying stuff. Prior to this week, we were doing some light prepping, so we'll continue to do that along with putting in a garden (the volunteer pumpkin in the front garden bed doesn't count; we need actual food) and start doing all that urban homesteading stuff, since we won't be able to trust the food supply chain (Shithead promised to do away with food safety regulations). We'll be working on getting our passports and paperwork together; saving up money, doing whatever we have to, in order to escape, or move, or whatever we end up doing.

One thing I can unequivocally say is that I'm done with Trumpers. May they all rot in hell for killing our beautiful USA. If he follows through on his plans, we'll be the next Hungary. 

In the words of Lt. Dan, God Damn Bless America. 

Tuesday, November 5, 2024

Election Day 2024

 We all voted for Vice President Kamala Harris. It's a cool day for me - it's R's first presidential election, and all five of the kids voted. I'm very proud of my civic duty-oriented children. Yesterday, B bought an all-weather US flag to fly for the occasion - our previous flag was only for sunny weather. 

Everyone is anxious about the election. To ward off any workday yuck, Dan and I decided to throw together a potluck. I baked a chocolate cake last night and frosted it with The Frosting this morning. Dan bought doughnuts from the college bakery (delicious) and Heidi baked peanut butter cookies (YUM - normally they're no big deal to me, but hers are slightly saltier than any others I've had and I'm loving them). 

I had a hard time getting to sleep last night, so I'm quite zombie-fied today, and staring down the barrel of a 2:00 ending time. YIKES. Can I make it till then? Only my coffee cup knows for sure. I only fell asleep two or three times during my lunch break. 

Saturday, November 2, 2024

Friday, November 1, 2024

Wednesday, October 30, 2024

We Love Our Kamala

"Those who came before us, the patriots at Normandy and Selma, Seneca Falls and Stonewall, on farmlands and factory floors: they did not struggle, sacrifice, and lay down their lives only to see us cede our fundamental freedoms. They didn't do that only to see us submit our will to another petty tyrant."

Monday, October 28, 2024

Happy 4th Birthday to Little C!

 

Celebrating our sweet girlie Little C today. She's such a funny, fun, SWEET, beautiful little girl. We love her so much. 

In other news: Unfortunately, and in a shocking turn of events, ballot boxes in Vancouver, at Fishers Landing, and in Portland, were lit on fire early this morning. The ballots were destroyed. 

People are freaks now. 

Sunday, October 27, 2024

My blood is boiling

In yesterday's mail, we received a transphobic flyer from the goons at the Washington State Republican Party. Are these fools not aware that they are sending hate mail to people who are trans? Probably not, and if they know, they don't care.

The guy sent it to M, under her deadname. NOT AT MY HOUSE.

I looked up the goon in question - his name rhymes with Flo Spent - and found his campaign headquarters' mailing address, as well as the mailing address of the WA Republican Party HQ. The flyer pictured a young girl in high school, a wrestler on the school wrestling team, who was (according to this flyer) completely flipping out that a "boy" may join her in the locker room and do who knows what to her.

As a mom of two trans folks, I was understandably livid, but also wished to remain anonymous, so I cut up the flyer into strips, drew stupid pirate face markings on the pictures of the girl, and included a note with a few choice F words to the goon. In it I included the hope that they would enjoy the "jigsaw puzzle" (the cut up flyer), and would be able to put it back together. Because they're all stupid, and they're all heartless, and they all suck donkey butt.

Dear transphobes, don't try that shit again with me. 

Tuesday, October 22, 2024

Mid October Post

 Yeah, it's a lame but honest title.

Life is good. We're so busy that I hardly have time to catch my breath, feels like. We've entered birthday season (M on 9/30, Hubby and Little R on 10/16, and Little C's will be 10/28), which ushers in holiday season. R's soccer season has been full of ups and downs, and is keeping us traveling on most weekends. It's been quite a full couple of months. 

I'm doing okay, mostly. I really want to declutter the house but it's usually so overwhelming that I have a hard time getting started. Still figuring that challenge out.

Otherwise, things are going well. 

Monday, October 21, 2024

POWER OUTAGE AT WORK

Before the store opened, the lights went out, along with everything else that requires electricity. We on-campus heroes were all excused. It made no sense to be there, since none of our computers were operable, and even our door could not be rolled open for customers. 

I was home and back in my pajamas by 10:30 AM.

Life is rough, folks. 

Sunday, October 20, 2024

Back at Evergreen Soccer Field


It was very hard. There was hugging. We're not fans of the way this is going for R.

After the "game", we were driving around Olympia when, suddenly, we spied a cute little hairy black spider hanging out inside the car, near the dashboard. No one was freaked out by it, but no one really wanted a spider in the car, either, so a plan of action was created.

Later: dinner at El Sarape, prompting shouts of "Oh boy, pico de gallo! They sure don't make it like this in Ohio!*). Before we went inside, I captured the spider in a cup and relocated it to a new home in the river rocks in the landscape outside of the restaurant. I bid it goodbye and wished it all the luck in the spider world. 

*no one shouted this ingenious Weird Al lyric, but they should have

Saturday, October 19, 2024

Sushi with Brighton

 ...at Sushi Factory. Something was happening Thursday, so we met today instead. 'Twas yummy and enjoyable. Sushi was inhaled, conversation was had. Long live Sushi Church!

Friday, October 18, 2024

Marty McFly: WHAT THE HELL IS THIS?

 

Marty McFly's sister: "Breakfast."


We're at Matt & Mandy's Family Diner in Woodland, Washington - a sweet tiny gem of a restaurant. Sandy discovered it and took me there a time or two before she moved. I decided it was my turn to show it to Hubby. Everything tasted amazing, as always.

Sunday, October 13, 2024

HERE COMES MY LIPSTICK

"...BUT IT COULD BEEEEEE.....SOMETHING SPECIALLLLL... JUST FOR MEEEEE"